Monday, June 06, 2005

What seperates a Winner and a Loser??

Who define who as winners, and who as losers? What qualities must one possess to be a winner? Then how do you differentiate a loser from the crowd? From the way he/ she dress? The way they speak? Their physical looks? Their hair? The way I view it is that people who thinks they're winners, define the losers. From many teenage movies, losers are always the ones being made fun of, push around, by the more popular dudes/ gals. So who define the winners? Others who look up to them? Does that make them losers? How a self-proclaim winner would feel when he/ she find out that he/ she is a loser in others' eyes?

Being a winner or loser is how you portraits yourself in front of others, how you would like to be seen as. But deep down, is that the real you? If so, congrats, you do have a great personality to gain the admiration of others. If not? Wouldn’t you be cheating or lying to yourself?

I used to consider myself as one of the "winners", maybe because I used to excel in most of the things that I do, except studies... but now I dun, and not that I feel I’m a loser... I’m happy with who I’m, I live my life the way I want, and I’ve a mind of my own.. I’m not embarrass to show my flaws, I’m glad to take criticism (though sometimes it really pisses me off to hear people saying that I’m fat..) it's a great feeling to be on the top of the world, viewing from the top at the people below you. Others will envy, envy leads to hate, hate leads to anger, anger lead to the dark side... (Haha...) but i feel some part of what the fucker Yoda said is quite true. Isn’t that what most human beings are like?

Anyway, something to ponder about... are you a winner or a loser? Which side would you be on? Or join me, part winner, and part loser?? Haha!!

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